Hello My Couple! I am so glad you chose to stop by our site and gain some insite into how to develop a forever relationship. Many people go through life meeting people and never take the time to understand why this or that person has entered into our lives. We have to ask the question first, what do I have to offer this person or what can I do to help this person. The help extended may not necessarily be in physical help. It could just be mental support or emotional stability.
The basis of any good relationship is a good understanding. We forget that the other person may not have grown up hearing the same advice or live in the same environment that we did, so we may possibly see things differently. A person that has never been hungry, may not know what being hungry is. Hence the understanding that we may see the same situation differently depending on our own personal experiences is the dividing line in our understanding of "why" one feels as they do and not like you.
A junk collector may be viewed as a "hoarder" when in actuality he would be collecting things that could be possibly of good use later in life or may be beneficial to someone else at some point of need or want. Any example given would be stating the same thing, your perspective is developed by one's situation and understanding at the time.
As for lasting relationships, the key word being lasting from start to forever. Not until death do us part. If you want to live forever in love with someone else, you can have that. If you start out looking for the last day, you have never started. You have already ended it before it started.
